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Are you trying to be a better wife, but you fear you may be failing? Were you raised to think that a spouse was supposed to be one thing, but you now want to be a better wife to your husband than your mother was to your dad? Do you feel his love is slipping away from you and you’d like to try to be a better wife in order to keep him with you?
You’re not alone in realizing that you’re not the best wife you could be. Many women simply fall into the role expecting a lot from their husband, but not really anticipating much will be expected of them in return. Sure, we may tend to a dozen other things in our lives and around the house, but how much effort are we truly willing to put into our romantic relationship.
If you’re like most, it’s probably very little… we want him to take care of the romance. Well, if you want to be a better wife you’re going to have to rid yourself of that notion.
Think of Him
When was the last time you treated him special? I’m not talking about the last time you ironed his shirt or cooked him a cupcake. I mean really did something special for him that could bring the two of you closer together. Give him a massage, run him a soothing bath (if he’s into that) or plan for a quiet meal with wine, great food and a nice aperitif.
Cuddle up and talk about everything other than the house, the jobs, and the kids. A romantic night for just you can re-open his eyes.
Sex Has it’s Place
When sex begins to lose it’s function in a woman’s life, she’s quick to assume that he doesn’t need it either. This may be true for a very small minority of men. By and large they need it, they want it and they enjoy it. If he’s constantly asking you for it, asking why you don’t want it and when you’ll finally offer it, you need to sit down and have a serious discussion about this.
Don’t shrug it off and say “That’s all you ever think about.” If he’s not getting any, it’s normal for him to always be thinking about it and to desire it. Discuss, without justifying or becoming defensive, why you’re truly not interested. Is he doing something you don’t life? Have you realized you simply don’t enjoy sex? Or have the rigors of life simply exhausted you and you have nothing to offer him at the end of the day.
Whatever the problem is, talk it out and find a solution. This is an important part of your marriage.
More Sex, Less Hassle
As sex diminishes in a relationship, the degree of complaints, criticism and nagging increases almost in equal increments. Stop making a huge fuss over every little thing he does wrong. Focus on the good and remind him how you appreciate all he does do right.
Turn the mirror on yourself for a moment and listen to the way you treat him. Are you pleasant and fun to be around? Are you a drag who always gets him down? Would you want to be with yourself if you were him? Find the joy in life that you had when you first met him and share it with him.
Set Your Priorities
If you ask a woman who is a mother what her priority is, she’ll no doubt say her children. Her time, effort, money and energy is all spent on ensuring her children are happy and well adjusted.
But how happy and well adjusted will they be if you’re tired and unhappy and your marriage ends up failing as a result. If you really care about the well being of those children, consider the well being of their parents and work to be a better wife. After all, if their parents aren’t doing well, who will take care of them?Write by phần mềm gốc